Pure Desire Summit – September 20-21, 2024

September 20-21, 2024

Gresham, Oregon

take back what the enemy has stolen

Unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma can destroy our identity. Who God created us to be is stolen by the enemy through painful experiences and lies we believe.

At this year’s Summit, we’re taking back our God-given identity. Join us September 20-21, 2024 and take back what the enemy has stolen.

Keynote Speakers

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The Keynote Speakers for Summit 2024 are experts in their field, proven over time, and flat out incredible. We like their style and their message and we know you will too.

Nancy Pearcey

Author, Love Thy Body
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Joshua Broome

Former adult film actor
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David Kinnaman

CEO, Barna
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Ashley Jameson

Associate Director of Women's Groups, Pure Desire Ministries
Nick Stumbo

Executive Director, Pure Desire Ministries
Rodney Wright

Advancement Specialist, Pure Desire Ministries

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Breakout Speakers

Robert Vander Meer

The Superhero Odyssey

Robert Vander Meer

The Superhero Odyssey

If your life was written as a screenplay, what would it look like? What life events would you include to help make sense of your story? For many men and women who engage in the recovery journey, healing happens when they can tell a coherent narrative of their story. In this session, you’ll experience a guided, creatively immersive approach to writing your Superhero Odyssey.

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in-person

streaming

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Lawrence Kim

A CBT Approach to Limbic Lies: Why Prophetic Promises Matter

Lawrence Kim

A CBT Approach to Limbic Lies: Why Prophetic Promises Matter

Limbic lies, strongholds, or limbic memories are sometimes called Negative Automatic Thoughts (NATs) in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) circles. CBT recommends two prospectives in dealing with NATs and limbic fears: 1) Exposure Therapy, and 2) Positive Self-Messaging. This session explains how CBT can be applied to those who struggle with addictive behaviors and those who have experienced betrayal to identify limbic lies. We’ll explore how Exposure Therapy can expose limbic lies to the reality of the situation, and how Prophetic Promises are far more impactful than Positive Self-Messaging, as it is rooted in the unchanging, eternal Word of God as opposed to Stuart Smally's "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me" approach

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in-person

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lifetime access
Heather Kolb

Transforming Your Mind & Your Marriage

Heather Kolb

Transforming Your Mind & Your Marriage

We know that when we invest in our own healing it changes our brain and allows us to pursue health. But practically, how does this process of transformation impact our marriage? In this session, we’ll explore tools and strategies that will inspire growth and transformation in your marriage. We’ll discover how communication, boundaries, emotional health, and brain chemicals (among other things) work together to create a lasting relationship.

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in-person

streaming

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lifetime access
Traci Wright, Rebecca Vander Meer, & Eileen Fagan

Reintegration of Sex for the Partner

Traci Wright, Rebecca Vander Meer, & Eileen Fagan

Reintegration of Sex for the Partner

We can't introduce sexual reintegration too soon with many betrayed partners. They need some healing first, but there’s not a lot of time at the end of group or counseling to really dive into this. Many women ask and are concerned about this—either they don't ever want to engage sexually again or they, "want to, want to" but are not there yet. This session will explore strategies on reintegrating sex after betrayal.

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in-person

replay

lifetime access
John Begeman

Living a Better Sexual Story as a Single

John Begeman

Living a Better Sexual Story as a Single

This session will address three pathways of dealing with sexual desire as a single: starvation, fast food, and a banquet. We’ll explore how the Church promotes suppression of sexual desires, culture promotes uninhibited indulgence of sexual desires, and Jesus promotes the direction of desires to ultimate satisfaction. We’ll learn what healthy sexuality is, common lies singles believe, truth to replace the lies, and practical tools for living in sexual health as a single.

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in-person

replay

lifetime access
Rodney Wright, Bob Vander Meer, Debby Flanagan, & Ashley Jameson

Is Masturbation Wrong and Why Do We Ask This Question?

Rodney Wright, Robert Vander Meer, Debby Flanagan, & Ashley Jameson

Is Masturbation Wrong and Why Do We Ask This Question?

This subject is such a sought out question for Christians for multiple reasons. Most faith communities are not equipped to have this conversation in a way that is safe, and combines a sexually and spiritually holistic approach. Most people are looking for a black or white, right or wrong answer to this question, mostly because the Church, historically, has been uncomfortable in educating about human sexuality and sexual development. This lack of clarity around masturbation, sexual feeling, or arousal in our adolescent development can be perceived as lust or evil. In this session, join our panel of experts as they provide insights and a holistic approach to these questions surrounding masturbation.

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in-person

streaming

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lifetime access
Harry & Debby Flanagan

The Power of Backstory

Harry & Debby Flanagan

The Power of Backstory

Past trauma informs (directs) our coping strategies in our present circumstances. This session will help men and women explore their past traumas and provide a set of tools to help them work through their stories of harm. As Dan Allender said, "Christ never intended to cover up the dark side of life, but rather to illuminate a path through it... So take seriously the story that God has given you to live. It’s time to read your own life, because your story is the one that could set us all ablaze." Men and women will learn the tools needed to explore their stories and write a new ending to their stories.

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in-person

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lifetime access
Josh Andrew

Helping Your Spouse Heal

Josh Andrew

Helping Your Spouse Heal

After sexual addiction has been disclosed or discovered in a marriage, the betrayed partner suffers from betrayal trauma. Many addict spouse’s question, “If I’m the one who caused the trauma, how can I have anything to offer for my partner’s healing?” In this session, you’ll learn how to participate in your own recovery and practical ways to help your spouse heal.

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in-person

streaming

replay

lifetime access
Shari Chinchen

Reclaiming Your “Me”—Second Level Healing for Betrayed Partners

Shari Chinchen

Reclaiming Your “Me”—Second Level Healing for Betrayed Partners

Discovery of a spouse’s addictive behavior is devastating. Recovery from the trauma caused by that betrayal is incredibly difficult and painful work. It is a journey no person would choose to endure. Yet, with the support of your Betrayal & Beyond community, you have survived. Now is the time to turn your focus toward the next step in your healing journey: Reclaiming Your “Me.” In this session, you will learn and walk through a process to help you: reclaim your giftedness; rediscover what makes you, you; move boldly and joyfully into this second level of healing!

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in-person

replay

lifetime access

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Re-experience the 2023 Summit in 108 seconds.

Summit 2023 could be descibed with many words. But it is most accurately described as real and raw. It was From The Heart.

One Event. Three Experiences.

The choice is yours. You can't go wrong!

Online

Enjoy the Summit without the hassle of traveling.

$99

Digital Manual
Replay Access (Until 10/31)
Invite One Person For $49
Upgrade to Lifetime Access for $59*

Host A Watch party

Why watch alone when you could make it a party?

$149

Includes Two Registrations (yourself plus one)
Digital Manual
Replay Access (Until 10/31)
Invite Unlimited Friends: $49/person using your unique registration link
You and your guests can upgrade to Lifetime Access for Additional $89*
Attendance-based incentives**
- With 5 attendees - Lifetime Access + 15% store discount
- With 10 attendees - Pure Desire Tumbler
- With 15 attendees - Pure Desire Hoodie
- With 25+ attendees - TBD

**Attendance-based incentives include the host and plus one.

In-Person

Nothing beats experiencing the Summit in-person.

$179

Digital Manual
Print Manual
Replay Access (Until 10/31)
Choice of Breakouts
Interact with Pure Desire Team & Keynote Speakers
Bring A Plus One For $120
Lifetime Replay Access Included
Swag Bag of Gifts

Questions? Download the FAQ or peek at the Summit schedule.

*On October 6, 2024, this discounted price will increase by $20 to $79 for online registration and $109 for watch party attendees. On November 1, 2024, this price will increase to its final cost of $199.

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“I left the summit feeling so very encouraged by the things I heard, the people I met and especially the atmosphere being totally safe to be fully known and fully loved by all who were in attendance.”

“It was refreshing seeing Christian people talking so openly about the things I struggle with. I felt understood and accepted at this event.”

“Phenomenal conference! I learned so much and was so inspired and edified spiritually!”

"Words can’t express how helpful this event was to my current journey and new discovery.”

"The staff is friendly and welcoming. My wife and i both feel safe and around people who have similar life struggles as we have had.”

"Great summit. I am a CSAT and CPTT through IITAP in Charlotte, NC and hope to learn to lead PD groups as it is great information. Thank you all for organizing this summit and putting excellent resources together.”

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Embassy Suites by Hilton Portland Airport

$189/night valid through August 19, 2024.

Four Points by Sheraton

$109/night valid through August 30, 2024.

Best Western Cascade Inn & Suites

$165/night valid through August 20, 2024.

Please be sure to ask for a room under the block name: Pure Desire Conf.

Individuals need to call the hotel to reserve a room under this block. A bank issued micro chipped credit card with the card holder's name imprinted, must be used, and presented with matching ID at check in. We do not accept pre-paid, loadable cards, checks, or cash. In addition to an authorization for room and tax, we will authorize a $250.00 security hold. If no damage, theft, smoking, or unauthorized pets, the hold will be released. Banks may take 3 to 10 business days to release hold.

Travel agents and 3rd party websites do not have access to this block. Rooms reserved through these other sources will NOT count as part of the group block.

We are 100% non-smoking and no pets allowed. A working service dog that performs a human task for a person with a disability is allowed. Emotional Support/Companion animals are not allowed.

The block will close one month prior to arrival, August 18, 2024. Reservations made after this date will not be included in the block or qualify for the group discount.

Questions? Download the FAQ or peek at the Summit schedule.

September 20-21, 2024

September 20-21, 2024

Gresham, Oregon

Keynote Speakers

Nancy Pearcey

Joshua Broome

David Kinnaman

Ashley Jameson

Nick Stumbo

Rodney Wright

Robert Vander Meer

Robert Vander Meer

Lawrence Kim

Lawrence Kim

Heather Kolb

Heather Kolb

Traci Wright, Rebecca Vander Meer, & Eileen Fagan

Traci Wright, Rebecca Vander Meer, & Eileen Fagan

John Begeman

John Begeman

Rodney Wright, Bob Vander Meer, Debby Flanagan, & Ashley Jameson

Rodney Wright, Robert Vander Meer, Debby Flanagan, & Ashley Jameson

Harry & Debby Flanagan

Harry & Debby Flanagan

Josh Andrew

Josh Andrew

Shari Chinchen

Shari Chinchen

Online

Host A Watch party

In-Person

Embassy Suites by Hilton Portland Airport

Four Points by Sheraton

Best Western Cascade Inn & Suites